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Hey Guys: Does She Want You?

Learn how to ask right.

Consensual sex is when both of you want it, and you both agree to have it. All sex has to be consensual. This means that as a guy you need to be sure she wants you as much as you want her. This can be confusing. You may have been told that girls always say no. But it's not a guy’s job to push girls to have sex. Sex without consent is not sexy, it’s actually rape.

Here are a few rules you need to know:

Watch out for statements like; "I'm not sure if I'm ready", "I don't know if I want to", "I think I've had too much to drink", "I don't want to get HIV", or "I'm scared". All of these statements must be taken as meaning no. Always check if you are not sure. Ask directly: “Are you sure you want this?” Or “Do you want me to stop?” If you don’t, you run the risk of being accused of rape.

A girl has the right to say no at any time - even if she said yes earlier. It's everyone's right to change their mind about sex, even during sex.

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Kabongo Kasuba

Why does the way a guy asks for things matter?

2 months, 1 week Ago Report

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Anonymous

True, both of the male and the female have to be ready first

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